Friend Truble! Help please?
Okay so i wouldn’t actually call her a friend but wat ever.
So this is sorta long….
i met this girl when i was in second grade and we were good friends. But now i am in 8th and i have grown up but she hasn’t!
She still likes to play with stuffed animals and do kiddi stuff! This is also so crazy…. she likes to play a game called Unicorns! She just made it up. (seriously it’s gonna sound soooo stupid) Your a unicorn and u get to pick ur color and stuff and wat kind of horse and there is a queen and a sky unicorn that turns night into day and the other way around…and you have to fight in arenas to level up and you also have to do a thing to the queen. You have to dance to a song and do karate moves too! And the point is that you have to keep the queen from evil and fight these elve like things. not a game on psp or anithing like that…ur outside and doing these things! I mean for heavens sakes she’s 13 almost 14 and she still likes these things.
She also likes fashion shows and dressing up and she even dresses her dog!
And when were in the pool she likes to make swimming shows…pretending like were mermaids and making a show!
She also likes to pretend that we are each a celebrity like britany spears or somebody like that and we do wierd stuff in the pool.
and instead of saying like crap or thats stupid she sais that’s poopish and stuff like that….GROSS! Who does that!
And when i was going to her house and we were really tired and just wanted to go in the pool and i said “wow i am so tired that i could just lay on top of the water like i am dead” and she’s like “ummmm….thats great….” and she rolled her eyes!
And when we are at school all she does is follow me and my friends like a little stalker. She also carries a purse around school…remember here 8th grade..people make fun of you for that! and just loves to shop (which isn’t a problem) but it gets annoying…let me give you a re-run of what she did with her mom
” mom…omg! this purse is soo cute… i love the pink sequences!! OMG OMG OMG!”
“no honey your not getting it…unless you pay with your own money”
“but why!!!!”
“honey u have like 75 dollars…you can get it yourself”
and then she just starts yelling at her mom! i mean seriously! GROW UP!
I don’t know what to tell her…can you help me? Sorry for so much i just can’t take this girl anymore.
Thanks 
OK, you have three options…
1. you can tell her how you feel, and how you guys are going to go into high school and that she really needs to grow up and start to acrt her age because people wont want to be her friend.
OR 2. Just accept how she is, and just deal with it.
Or 3. Let her know that you dont want to be friends anymore because you just cant take it. (This is the most extereme of course)
Good luck!
wow that was super long but i read it! lol
and im sorry your having to deal with someone so immature. i understand your pain really i do. i had a friends like that once. but then i moved thank god. lol ne ways she sounds like shes trying to act cool around people im in 10th grade a sophmore in highshcool. and i remember how much we made fun of 7th graders walking around with purses i mean its not a problem but it just looks wack. ok so you should come out straight with her next time she wants to do something STUPID or in HER words poopish ( which i totally agree with you is really babyish just tell her off. say hey do you think we could do something more mature. then that way you could start the conversation with her and if she says “are u calling me immature” then you could say well,,, kinda yeah and then you should let her know how she is being a brat in front of her mom. and that she needs to grow up just a little bit and if she gets mad at you so be it. i mean come on thats what you wanted right for her not to follow. you. sorry for this being so long just wanted to help you out of this problem and i totally understand you. i mean you sound like a grown mature teenager( that gets you into highschool parties) so live your own life dont act immature just because of her. lol good luck 